Forgive me for adding one more story about my wonderful DH. There are more ways of being romantic than with candy & flowers. When I was 31, married with 2 kids, I decided to go to college & become an LVN. I'd be in the bedrm. with the ironing board set up at the foot of the bed as a desk doing homework. He came in, removed my textbooks & set down my dinner plate.
When I was 39, I went back to college for my RN plus worked full time. The 2 kids were teenagers but we now had a surprise little one. I'd do homework on the couch so I could be in the same rm. with my little boy & mom wouldn't be missing. Again, hubby would remove my textbooks from my lap & set down my dinner plate. He kept the home fires burning so I could study. Can't beat a guy like that. Sure beats candy & flowers.
Pat