After way too many years of first doing everything that had to be done, and then hoping for time for me, I finally learned that the "must do" things will get done somehow, and therefore take the time first for some of the "want to do" things! A self-driven perfectionist in most things, I've adopted two mottos: "Anything worth doing is worth doing badly" (think on that one a minute...) and "If it weren't for the last minute, nothing would get done."