OH man do I understand the domineering MIL(she is a piece of work for sure!LOL)-I always turn that around and make it sweet .. LOL
The glass? just put it in the sink, dishwasher or whatever.. maybe she is unsure of what to do with the glass, have you asked her if she wanted more water in her glass ? If not I'll put it in the dishwasher. Maybe that would work for you ..
Best I can say to you is pick your battles wisely- I learned from saying anything about DH's sister in law to anyone (another piece of work !LOL). Sounds like you just need to be the hostess with the politest and pleasant personality to your MIL. Just let lying dogs lie and let it go no matter what is said or done when she visits. Believe me I am truly learning this lesson in life as well.
We are all unique, from different eras as far as manners and mannerisms.
Last edited by Caswews; 07-23-2013 at 10:23 AM.