I once asked a wonderful friend (my best friends mother) why she had not taught me to be neat like my best friend..She looked at me and said I didn't teacher her to be neat. she just was. After raising 5 children I have some who are neater than others..but it seems to be a born that way thing.. so I was not born that way.. I like neat!! I dream of neat! worked at being neat! Still messy .. but I get lots done
and finally I look out at the woods, it is beautiful and not so neat sometimes so it will all turn out ok. I want to have a space that works better..but until I get it, everything is ok!