Chew, I do know what the rules say about gracefully accepting your fininshed quilt. But if you really don't like a border, do you lie to the person who posted it, or damn them with faint praise, or not post a response at all, or be honest and say that you really don't care for it and give them a chance to redo it? I know that all of us really want to please the owners of each centers. I would really want someone to tell me that they don't care for my concept, and ask for a revision. It wouldn't hurt my feelings at all, and I would respect them more.