CarrieM ... I'm sure it's hard for you to be enthused knowing that, but please do try. Perhaps they will change their minds and surprise you later, in saying that it should stay with their brother/son aka your DDDH! After all, he carries the "name"!
MiraB ... oh what a sad note to a wonderful day. {{{{HUGS}}}} Did you know before you left the hall? Or only after you unpacked once you were home? We'll hope that someone does find it and return it to you.
DublB ... ITA time for you to pass your new address on to the group.