Queen the deal with the swaps is regardless of excuses some excellent I am sure people get hurt feelings when items are sent then a return item is not received. hence the name SWAP not gifting. So I am sure if you get your ducks in a row people will allow you to swap again but you should work hard at not over signing up been there done that it ends up not fun and two.. not waiting .. most swaps have a long deadline to make things say 2 to four months. putting things off ends up being a rotten idea in the end. so if you work on your timeline better so your done early you will be safe and well accepted into any swap here.