The year I said NO to going to Grandmas by 9 a.m. We had 3 small children, the uncles and aunts no kids.. I said lets go at lunch time and boy did I hear it for weeks prior to the event. It was the best decision. We could get up, enjoy opening presents in PJ's, kids could play with the new toys (not have to shove them under the tree til we got home late that night) and their father and I could enjoy a hot coffee and relax without rushing. I am so glad I stuck to my decision and it was never questioned again. The simple things we can do that can make our lives so much more pleasant.