When I first read this I really thought it was a joke. I don't want to seem unfair, but Life is so short. This isn't a trial run, We only are here one time. I try to get every ounce of happiness out of everyday I have here. I have a wonderful X mother in law. We are still best friends. It sounds like there is more to it than a glass of water. Worrying about this will just take away from your happiness. Remember what you send out to the universe is what will come back to you. As Phil says, just be HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY. Sending love your way.