Oh you were right on the money. My daughter is 18. I have told her from day one you TEACH people how to treat you. She has got it down. You do not last minute me and expect me to jump, you will open doors, you will speak correctly to me or not at all, you will treat me well or you will not treat me at all. BE HIGH MAINTAINENCE, its better than being easy. If thats high maitainence, can you imagine that same name caller dealing with a REAL ISSUE? Heck no. And that goes for a relationship be it man and woman or same sex.. respect is something you have to command. It doesnt come free these days. Being a lady is a gift these young fools are only fortunate enough to encounter. The lucky ones treat them accordingly.