Originally Posted by
Gabrielle's Mimi
You know, some of the responses here are kind of mean-sounding. I'm in my 60s and have never asked for cash gifts, nor have my kids, but you know what, if they are trying to buy a house, why not chip in a little bit toward that? What young couple needs more candy dishes? Frankly, it's quicker and easier for me to write a check than it would be for me to make them a quilt. And I would be assured the gift would be appreciated, rather than wondering if the quilt ended up in the dog bed or Goodwill. We have to understand that times change and just because we did things a certain way in the 1950s or 1960s doesn't mean that's the ONLY way to do things. Wish them well!
Can't help but think back to the 50's when we got married we needed money as well but would have never dreamed of asking for it. I remember my brother asking our aunt one time for a cookie and her answer was, "No, if I wanted to give you a cookie I would have offered it. Never ask for things." Somehow I think times may have changed but I don't think manners are ever passe.