I don't think it's ever too late to learn a new skill, bu it definitely takes getting used to. I had been sewing for more than 25 years when I first tried FMQ. It just goes completely against ingrained habit to move the fabric any direction but straight back under the presser foot. I didn't think I'd ever get it right. My first attempts looked pretty pitiful, but I was determined to learn. I stuck with it and eventually it got easier and easier. I will never win a competition, but my quilting looks good enough for me and I actually enjoy doing FMQ now. Hang in there! And I also would encourage you to see if a local shop or guild might be able to give you hands-on help.