Wishing the best for your family. I understand your question. Of course your focus is on the baby's health status, but you are thinking of the future when the baby is home. Your quilt was made with love and it will be loved. Some daddy's have specific "feelings" about colors, etc., for their boys, more so than for their girls. I agree with the others to let this male baby have this quilt from his great grandmother and then make another for later. With your expressions, I think you would feel better to go ahead and plan the new "toddler" quilt. I join others in sending prayers for your family.