One of DH's coworker's wife is very sick. DH asked me if I had a quilt I could send her. He wanted to do something and didn't know what to do that would mean something to her and her DH. I met her several times and knew we would never be more then acquaintances if that. My heart wasn't in it but I picked out colors I thought she would like and sent the quilt with a nice card. She was very appreciative and that made me feel glad I took the extra effort to make it nice for her.