Just a note: I'd not wash them ahead of time as you will be washing several times before gifting, but after sewing. Shrinkage can happen then and it will be fine if you have sewn the squares in an X.
I know that I have given quilts to people that I haven't particularly cared for, but not while making the quilt.
I like sewing, so to me, whether or not I LOVE that person, it is a "non issue" with me.
However, I do what I want when it comes to sewing and remember as others have mentioned...
1. your skills are on display,
2. the baby is innocent,
3. why not consider a gift from Walmart instead and
4. you will enjoy it better if you have a good attitude and only you can change that!
Enjoy making this creation. If the fabric is beautiful, I'd love making it no matter who is the receiver!