I think you are GREAT and what I would want my husband to do is get me a real nice card, with picture of what you think she might want. The local Quilt Store should be able to help you if they know her. Put the pic in the card and tell her she can have that one or anyone she might like better, or prefer. Like BellaBoo said it is a personel item that only she is going to be working with so she should pick it out. Have a GREAT Christmas and it sounds like both of you are very lucky to have each other.