My daughter is late (naturally, the person who started the swap is late, right!) However, we are in luck. Her partner, Fu (youme's daughter) is running behind too, so we are on the same page and no one is unhappy! So, it's all good.
I think you should NOT post your final photo in this section (your PDA's should be fine, they are a bit more private!) - let the recipient post their new quilt along with their thank you's. I think that's part of the fun for them, not to mention a lesson in etiquette, etc. :) This whole thing is a great learning process and family experience for our children. More than one "lesson" in this project for sure.
Thanks again to all the participants.