I agree with scrappy quilter, the list she had is great. I'll add for tween girls bath and body things, bubble bath, scented shampoo and soap. Those in a theme scent thrill young ones on limited budgets. Fancy combs and brushes add to the special feel. Teen girls even a bit more towards make up sets, those afraid to buy makeup because of not knowing color preference could try makeup brushes etc.. Those aren't necessities and are not gotten much. Having raised my two myself, I remember what it was like. Thankfully I had parents to help me. This is a wonderful thing you are doing.