Wow, I agree with the others. Maybe she was just trying to fit in. Besides, our sewing group does not get together to be quiet. We are always talking to each other. If I wanted to just be in total quietness and sew I would stay home and sew alone. I imagine that in the past when ladies got together for quilting bees they did not sit and sew in silence. To me this is suppose to be a social time not quiet time. That is just me. Sounds like she needs and wants the friendship or she would not have come there in the first place. I suggest that you take the time to get to know her better.