Thanks for encouragement and ideas. Nammie hit the problem head on. It is all about her so far. The group is not quiet. Actually we talk a lot about a lot of things, but it is usually lots of topics without a person monopolizing the time. We were not well acquainted before this group started and now we are close and enjoy each other without any pressure. All of us are long time quilters and tend to be loners, which is why the friendship in this group is surprising. We want to just come, visit, and work on our own projects, not be a support group. Right now she's feeling like a high maintenance and high drama person. I have no problem getting involved with people and reaching out, but this time I don't feel like this gal is supposed to be part of my bundle. And it's not because I'm being selfish.