No don't do that! I just think it is my monitor, on mine it looks very bright, kind of like a hot pink bright. The purple looks like it is the very same color as the one I used. I'm sure I will love it just the way it is. The soft shades are what I asked for and you both say the pic is different than what it is showing. You see it in person, that sometimes makes so much difference, I'm sure it is perfect!!! I didn't say I didn't like it, I like the design of your border, I just was surprised when I saw the "hot pink" color I am seeing here. Didn't mean to make you feel that way at all Miriam, I'm so sorry I didn't say that a little better. Please accept my apologies.