I used to be part of a group that seemed to get along great. I was the outsider who traveled to their city to quilt with them. I was the traveler who had been all over the world, still traveling and they were the homebodies who thought a trip to the grocery store was a big deal. If this woman truly does not fit in, you won't have to say a word, she will get bored with you. It seems to me that women can say a lot when they don't even open their mouths. I am still friends with these other women, but I don't quilt with them weekly anymore.