Here is my theory...if we give generously...it comes back...maybe not in the same way, but other blessings sometimes...if I trust an organization to share the quilts with a specific destination...and they don't I would bring it to the attention of the leaders and ask why it was done and if that is policy...if I don't get a clear answer then I would find another guild and or donate elsewhere.
However, I do know that most charity organizations are not all honest and honorable in every way...they are "real flawed people" in them. So don't fantasize that your donations are all going where you intended....but my thinking is that once I give it...the responsibility moves from me to them and if they are dishonest...then they are accountable for their actions.