Elisa - you are correct it is the thought that counts
As for what to get your partner- you can wait and get the list and see what they listed , check out last years Secret Santa or just send what you would like/ want /need
Some go over the 20.00 gift limit and that is fine BUT no one should feel obligated to spend more to compete and the receiver should NEVER feel cheated if they didn't get the biggest box of the year
I have found some good sales so that helps stretch the money
Nope no sewing involved if you don't want to
and for all you newbies pppppsssshhhhhttttt word of warning stay away from Dreamer...... she will get you into trouble before you realize what she is up to
She will offer you bribes, make all kinds of promises and next thing you know - down the hole you go
LOL