You can do it a couple ways, Judylee2. You can click on Terri's avatar, and then click on Personal Message on the left side of the screen. Type in tlrnhi, and Secret Santa in the subject line, then type your message. Or you can go to the top of this page where all your info is (on the very top right). Then under notifications, you can send a personal message. It really is very easy. Any more questions, just ask here, we can help.