Sometimes Bear the peculiar can even be seen as rude.
If you are talking to a group of men and women do you call them you people or you guys?
thanksgiving we went out to eat and I went to say why don't you "guys" just find a place to sit. I thought twice about using you guys but what else would you say instead?
It doesn't bother me to be addressed as you guys. It is a group identification to me. Whether the group is men and women or all women.