Oh I agree Cindy - makes my hackles rise! If some would just communicate, it would help so much.
CFourPaws, I understand your problem...My mom came down with the Shingles on July 3rd - she's STILL 'laid out' so to speak...They just whipped her! She stays in bed all day, gets up, does her thing, mite eat a bit, then goes back to bed...I told my friend the other nite, I feel like I've lost 3 mos!! I have to stick close by in case she gets up and needs me. I do think doing my swaps has kept me going tho - it's my salvation..lol We just have to do what we have to do... I hope things go well for your mama..
Hugs
Jean