And then there are those times you just don't know what to think. I worked for a closeted transgender person, born male but, with a muscular football physique and deep voice, claiming to be female and making it known she had a romantic partner who was female. Several times, she came into the multi-stall women's room when I was there. I was not comfortable, but I didn't let my discomfort show and left as soon as possible. Other women, however, would leave as soon as she showed up or go quite a distance to use another restroom.