Thank you everyone for the kind words of sympathy on the loss
of our beloved Bandi.
She was truly the original "grumpy cat" not in looks but in attitude.
Bandi didn't like the other 3 kids getting near her. Especially the "dude"
Mr. Gizmo (my cross-eyed part Siamese kid).
It was only about 6-7 year ago that she started sleeping on the bed
next to my DH as long as he was laying on his side facing the wall.
Than she would look over him at me and meow wanting me to reach
across him to pet her.
About 3 years ago she started turning into to "cuddle kitty" in between
DH and I but curled up into his arm and under the covers. Than about 2
years ago she started sleeping on my extra pillow (I have 2 pillows, one
is intended for a furkid).
Last night (as I have done the last 9 nights) I called her name and said
"come on Bandi lets play cuddle kitty" Tim had to remind me that she
was gone now.
I know she isn't suffering now, but darn we miss her, and the other 3 kids
keep looking for her too.