So sorry to hear about that happening. My job had some cut backs and I'm now making less than half of what I was a few years ago. Money was not an issue before and now it is. We do not go out to eat anymore unless we are on a road trip. If we do eat out, we only get water to drink(we have a family of 5 that adds up alot). I make lots of big meals and hope for leftovers. Left overs are a free for all. Usually used for lunches(school and work). I buy in bulk when it is cheaper or on sale. We go thrift shopping when possible. Grow your own garden. We don't drive anywhere we don't have to go. No more just riding around for fun. Vinegar can be used in place of fabric softener and can be used as a cleaner also.