Paducah is a BLAST! I would definitely recommend it. Yes, it's big, but it's all pretty contained into a couple of buildings, and there are tons of other quilting things to do within walking distance. They have a free bus system that will take you from place to place, including all the hotels, so you can park your car at the hotel and not worry about driving. I definitely recommend the quilt museum, too. It's right next door to the show, and the first time I visited I was in absolute awe of the gorgeous quilts there. Send her - she'll LOVE it!!!!!!!