Ya'll just have to realize....everyone takes teasing differently than others. What you may think is teasing, hurts the feelings of others.
Pot shots and that's what I'm calling them...of saying that the person isn't going to get a nice package or someone joined the swap because they want something for free, yada, yada, yada, just hurts.
I'm not going to put up with it anymore, I will delete posts and will discontinue Secret Santa next year if need be. Secret Santa will cease forever more. I don't think anyone wants that, but there are those that will go to Patrice and as you know, if Patrice deems it necessary, she can and will cancel this swap.
This is the most anticipated swap of the year. I enjoy doing it, not asking for anything in return. I enjoy the fun that everyone has, but when feelings start getting hurt, well.......I just won't tolerate it.