Lynnie,
I hear ya, I don't sit well, either..that's why I said I was the laid back one and then added most people who know me would find my saying that hilarious! Years ago when dh and I had sold our house in town, we lived with my parents for a few weeks waiting for our house where we live now to be completed, and have the new well and septic systems put in. At that time, it had been about 16 years since I had last lived at home. Well, I couldn't just sit around..like watching tv, or whatever. Ended up my mother telling me I was driving HER crazy because I was constantly needing to do something..LOL.
What I should've said was I don't get all ocd about others, but I do about myself..always have been this way. Your talking about bills, etc. reminded me of my Nanny' s (grandma) saying. She would say she and Papa worked for their mad money, they got mad and paid the bills with it! She was so great, I sure miss her!