Originally Posted by
tessagin
Same thing happened to me. After going to the quilt show held here in February, I asked about joining. They invited me to the next meeting to see if I wanted to join. I was not informed I had to bring "samples" of my work and do a "show and tell". I lugged my sewing machine in case I was going to use it. I saw a couple people I knew who immediately acted like they didn't know me. I mean I've known them for many years but truly standoffish. Didn't take long and I didn't even take my sewing machine out. I never saw so many people give me such a cold look and it was "suggested" I try another guild. I asked why and was told it was because they were a "Christian Group". How dare they! My reply was that I was going to check around and see if I couldn't find a "Really True Christian Group" who was not just a bunch of gossipy B*****s, who actually knew what "Christian" meant. I was not even given a chance. And yes I guess I did pass judgment by calling them the "Bs" but was only for a moment. At least one thing for sure, they knew I called things they way I saw them. I wasn't even there 30 minutes. 100 degrees outside and below freezing indoors. I called a couple other guilds and asked if any of the people I knew from the other guild were members and of course they were. I did go to another guild where the meeting house was 30 minutes away but got to be too much lugging the machine. Am looking for a light-weight and not wanting to pay a whole lot but too many things really going on. So will put off. I still hear from this last guild though. Really need to get back into it. Take my mind off things that have arisen.
I would suggest that you didn't visit a quilting group, you inadvertently landed in a bible study/so-called Christian prayer group that happened to have quilters.
Quilting isn't Christian, Jewish or Islamic or Taoist....quilting is an all inclusive art form where people who want to bring the unexpressed into form make art. And anyone can join.
I get physically sick when I see and hear these self-proclaimed christians start blathering biblical passages at folks and judging with every breath. Spare me! I especially dislike blogs that lead with how much they love Jesus...my God. Give it a rest. Your beliefs are personal and private not billboard material...Now a good log cabin design? THAT'S billboard material.