Please step back and look at this quilt. This quilt is very pretty. I know you have had many problems,but we do not see your mistakes.If this makes you fill good that is all that really counts.Think ,will this still keep you warm or would you lose sleep laying under this?When you wash this maybe the thread will not stand out as much to you.But put this on your bed and see if you can move on.I really do like it and maybe in time you will also.