When we were moving, our SIL "helped" us. She helped herself to lots of our stuff. Some of the stuff she helped herself to (unbeknownst to her) was our passports and DD214's and other items of interest only to us that were in a beautiful wooden box. When we mentioned to her that we had lost our paperwork, she immediately stated that she would talk to our movers. Miraculously, the "movers" returned our stuff. To this day, we have not thought of her without thinking of how she took our stuff and could have done us lots of damage.