My heart goes out to your sister and her loss. The daughter of a dear friend and her husband had a similar situation happen to them. However, another little girl who needed lots and lots of love came into their lives as a foster child and ended up being adopted by them. It's a joy to see how she is thriving in a wonderful home atmosphere. They are now foster parents to 2 yr. old twin boys. They have the patience of Job and I greatly admire them for taking those little boys into their home. I believe the quilt was made for Noah and how appropriate.