I have two little grands who live with us, along with their mother who went thru an unfortunate divorce. Having no where else to go, now they occupy our home. Tho it does get hectic and a little crazy I remind myself how blessed I am to have these beautiful children jumping on my bed in the morning with lots of kisses and hugs all day long! Actually you find yourself adapting fairly well. Someday it will not be like this I'm sure.