Charlotte, I remember the same kind of discussion about "wonky" or inappropriate squares, etc. after Owlvamp's last swap and just before you stepped-up to give her a break so she could recuperate. One should go back a read some of the replies received after the...guess I"ll have to use the word complaints were posted....swappers brought out many things I hadn't considered and made me more acceptable to what I can do and what I received. I have 2 grown sons and 1 grandson so have always leaned to the boy appropriate fabrics BUT I also understand those wanting girly things. I can compromise and find a use for those I may not put in my boy quilt....a great niece received a an I SPY quilt just out of the blue so I could use some girly, girly blocks and I'm finding a source for hospitalized children or can cut into 2 1/2 inch charms. When one joins a swap one should understand that there may be some things he/she doesn't like.......and has no control over.
Charlotte,thank you for stepping in when help was needed and I hope we will still "see" you on here.