Fly Lady really helped me out when I was having a horrible time. Some days I couldn't even focus for the 15 minutes she suggested for housework so I focused on 5 minutes then worked my way up to 15 minutes. She has so many good suggestions. I have fallen off of the Fly Lady wagon but am getting back on. I keep my kitchen sink clean and it helps so much to wake up to a clean sink. The cleanliness and order moves on from there. If you haven't checked out Flylady.com you should take a few minutes and see what she has to offer. If you can find a few more minutes in a day to quilt it will be worth it.