so happy for you. I too am in the process of getting my first daughter in law. and sadly she too didn't have a good growing up. An only child to drug users and grandma raised her. Its funny to watch her here with my brood. My son's name is Jusitn also. When they come out for a visit, she can't get over what its like to see justin with his 10 siblings. being an only child I thought we might scare her off...haha