Always make sure you're right before bragging...
Look at the bright side. Your husband will probably let you keep collecting just for the entertainment value.
The first and last pictures you showed are correct for threading the bobbin.
Sorry I haven't had to try to time one yet. I'm of no use to you. I'll be watching this thread. If it is a timing issue I would like to know how too. I have a 99 waiting for me to get to it yet.
Rodney