I am sooooo happy to read all the wonderful feedback on this. I am so thankful that this board exists and that I could in some small way give back to you all, at least a portion of the encouragement that I myself have found from others here on this board. This board has been both a sanctuary and a college campus for lack of a better term. It has made me feel safe and comfortable in my own decisions, as well as expanded my knowledge base and taught me new things. so thank YOU !