I have hand quilted a lot of smaller projects, but not any thin larger than a lap quilt. I don't use waxed thread and never had a problem. I use a hoop, but there aren't any hard fast rules about it. If you don't want to use a hoop that's alright too. Actually there is a book about lap quilting, but I don't know the author. The main thing is to learn to enjoy it. It won't be perfect, but it's very relaxing. Have fun!