Originally Posted by kapatt

My husband and I work together on the household budget. (We are using Dave Ramsey's system of getting out of debt.)

We have been married for 28 years. We use to fight over money but we don't now. Each of us get the same amount and each of us can spend it without explaining to the other one how it was spent. (We both trust each other that the money is not going to be used in the wrong way...like for drugs or for a gambling addiction.)