paperbackswap.com had a few books like that last I looked. If you list some books you don't want you get one free, then one free for each one you exchange. You have to pay shipping.
I saw one there "decorate your whole house" and another "country kitchen" theme. I don't remember the exact titles.
I used "quilting" or "sewing" under search, and then changed the "all books" to "posted books" on the left. Posted books are the free ones you can order right away.
I've been seeing more quilting and sewing books on there lately. I've also got to order free from Amazon on occasion, and got a really nice knitting book, and "make your own clothes" book.