QNS I too lost a baby over 21 years ago. I take comfort that when my loved ones that have passed away they git ta rock my baby. OK I really don't know how heaven works & my baby might be all grown up. He might have been instantly grown or might have grown as he would have here. He might have stayed a baby, I just don't know. I just like thinkin' o' my DGDad, DDad, DFIL, of DMIL gittin' ta rock my baby. I do know that they git ta see my baby & the other babies in my family that died in the womb. There are a lotta 'em.