I'm new here but i can say that you have to consider frequency of washing. My Daughter has a quilt that was made about 16 years ago. Even though it doesn't get washed as often now, it so soft that it will puddle on the floor if you drop it. It is all 2 inch squares, was made without starch and i remember how stiff it was at first. It was made with thicker batting then what i use so i would say it is medium loft or density. I've been considering a lot more stitching for the quilts that i know will be used a lot.