no is really a simple, simple 2 letter word...for some reason so many people have such a hard time using it...it is better to simply say, 'no, i'm sorry- I really do not do (clothing sewing)' much better to simply decline than to deal with all the frustration, guilt when you are not able, hard feelings all around...honesty is a much better solution for everyone involved. even though I do try often to fulfill requests I also do not have a problem declining when it is something I either do not want to do, or truly do not have time to do. if you agree to do something that you really do not know how to do, or do not like doing before you know it everyone around wants you to do it for them too...better to leave that 'can of worms' closed.