Happy Easter!!!
I am fine either way..secret pal doesn't really matter, as the fabric colors/patterns are still secret until the person gets them. Time to mail is no biggie to me either (gheez, I am sooo easy going...lol) as long as they're mailed within the time frame that is set.
My main issue is making sure if someone sends then they also get back. And if someone doesn't fulfill their end then they don't get to play. I'm sorry if that's harsh, but the ones being "shorted" probably don't think it is harsh. And I know I wouldn't want to be the one being "shorted".
Lastly, I see no need for you to apologize, Brat...as you're doing the best you can..and none of us have waved our hands volunteering to take this on...My hands are firmly down at my sides...lol..
As always, I am happy to "angel" and help out when needed...as long as hubby quits being "Tim the Tool Man" and getting injured!

(Said with love for dh...)
Kif